The Last Days

I am in the midst of my last week at NightLight.  Where did the time go?  So much has happened, and I still feel like I just got here.  Such is life.

I am thankful.  First of all, I'd like to thank you, my supporters.  Whether you've supported me prayerfully, financially, or simply by being my friend at some point in my life, you are part of this story.  At several points this year that I've been having a rough few days or week, I've gotten messages out of the blue from friends saying, "hey, you're on my mind, praying for you."  One message can mean the world friends.  Not only do I realize that I'm not forgotten by people "back home," but I know that even in the midst of anguish, God sees me because He is choosing to put me in someone's mind.  Praise Him.  Even if I haven't talked to you since I've been here, I know that prayers are heard.

Nana red light area- one of Bangkok's three areas that caters to foreign men 

In the world that I occupy here, good and evil are pretty tangible.  It's easy to see the dark things, they are particularly open here, and this is part of why Bangkok has the reputation that it does.  It's easy to be overwhelmed by it all.  I am sometimes asked by guests how we do this day in and day out.  Here is the answer: you look at the one.  You keep it small.  I have 30 women who work for NightLight who I get to know and love every single day.  If I am talking to someone on bar outreach or during beauty shop, she is my world for that moment.  In the neighborhood where I work, debauchery, selfishness and pain reign openly.  Sometimes we pray things like, "God show us Your glory in this place!  Come Lord!  But, His glory is already here.

I have met some amazing people this year.  People from all over the world, all different walks of life, all different reasons for being in Bangkok.  Let me tell you about a few of them.   Nora has a beautiful singing voice.  She can also play guitar, and she loves to lead worship.  She's a servant, the first to notice when someone needs something, quick to do the tasks that don't get much credit.  She loves Jesus so much.  Molly has the best laugh I have ever heard.  She cares about people in need, and wants to see them know the fullness of who they are in Christ.  She listens well and is unafraid of preaching the Gospel.  She's dreaming of missions outside of Thailand.  Molly, Nora, and others are finding their strengths in ministry too.  They are bold, strong women, and I'm so thankful that I've gotten to work alongside them this year.

You might have guessed that I was talking about some of the women who work at NightLight.  These women are amazing.  Their love for people is so big.  I could go on forever about how awesome they are.  I don't see them for their past.  I don't see them in light of how far they come.  I do my best to see them as they are, exactly as I described them above.  One of the words that God gave me over this time was "to bring hope and dignity to His daughters."  Dignity means seeing someone as they are, for where they're going, not as they've been.  There's tension in it too though: how do I explain what I just told you, and also explain the importance of our work?  So this is what I have to say: these women are amazing.  Jesus has changed them through and through, so much that their past isn't even the most important part of the story.  And since Jesus is about changing people through and through, I think He wants that for more of His girls working in the sex industry.  His glory is already here.  And we want to see more.  That is how we do what we do.  Because in the midst of overwhelming darkness, we have seen the Light.  God's glory is rising out of this place.  It seems small, but it matters so much.  Because for that one woman, it's her whole life.  Glory be to God, who makes all things new.

And yet, this city is beautiful too and has been my home

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I can't believe that this time is over.  Thank you again, my supporters.  My financial needs this year have been provided for, over and beyond what my target amount was.  This surplus will be given back to NightLight, in a few ways that I have seen different needs.  Because of this generosity, I didn't have to touch any of my own savings for reasons other than travel and a few "extras."  Thus, I've taken a very exciting opportunity that I want to share with you.  A few months ago I found some crazy ridiculously cheap flights to Australia.  I prayed and asked God if this was something that He had for me, and I felt everything saying yes!  One of my friends from early in my time here is Australian, and one of my friends from Hope has been living in Sydney this past year.  One week from today, I will be embarking on an adventure that I only ever could have dreamed would be mine. I'll be in Australia for two weeks, and then I'll work my way back to Thailand via Singapore and Malaysia.  I'll be taking the opportunity for a lot rest and reflection that needs to happen after this year.  Because of the generosity of my financial supporters, I have my own money available to make this reality!  Wow!  Thank you Lord!

Some beautiful NightLight earrings

This might be the last update that I send out before I'm back in the US.  I'm planning some times in December (and afterwards) to share my experiences in Thailand.  I'm more than happy to speak one on one or to groups of people.  I'm also planning to bring home some NightLight jewelry and shirts to sell (you save on shipping), so let me know if this interests you as well!  I have a prayer request as well: I have spent a lot of time and effort thinking and praying and pursuing different options as to my future.  Nothing is certain as of yet.  Can you pray with me that I'll have some peace and clarity, even with the unknown?  Pray that I would choose Jesus over everything in whatever situation.

We Have to Have Compassion for the Men

Surrounding the issues of sex trafficking and prostitution, we talk a lot about the women trapped in the industry.  We hear their stories of abuse and pain, of new found love and freedom.  But what about the other 50%?  What about the men?  In this case I'm talking about the customers, the men who come and participate in some way, whether buying a girl out for a week or having a drink at one of the beer bars with a girl.  I heard it from day one at NightLight, even before, during training:

We have to have compassion for the men.

When I get to this part of my tour speech, I usually say it at least three times.  Because it takes that many times and so many more times for it to sink in.  We have to have compassion for the men.  It's not the immediate reaction that someone will have to observing life in the red light district, it's not the image that anyone has of these men.

 What if the image we had was of a lost and broken human?  What if we thought about these men, not as slobbering pigs, but as people who have been hurt along the way?  These things certainly don't excuse their behavior, but they need to be addressed.  There are a variety of factors that will bring a men to a red light district, and it's probably not just one.  Pornography addiction is a big one.  Porn is addictive in the same way that drugs are, and full of lies about what sex is supposed to be like.  Maybe a relationship fell apart at home.  Maybe he's lonely, or suffered abuse in his past.  Maybe all of these things have made him into someone that he never thought he could be, a man that's not who God made him to be.

We have to have compassion for the men.

I have seen 60+ year old men with 20 year old women.  I have seen men walk into a room and choose a woman like they might look at new shoes or order a meal.  I have seen the fear in her eyes as she leaves with him.  I have seen her face as he grabs at her, when he can't see the disgust and shame in her eyes as she turns away and pretends to have fun.  I have seen so many men who have flown around the world for these temporary pleasures.

We have to have compassion for the men.

The anger in me built up and simmered.  I realized when I saw a foreign man (alone or with a Thai woman), that I would begin to assume the worst of him.  Don't get me wrong, there are some pretty bad dudes that come here, buying sex is never okay, and there is nothing in me condoning what these men are doing.  But over the months of being here, over the conversations with people who have been here much longer than me, I see that anger and condemnation are not the answers.  These things are part of life, and it is not a victory for the Lord if I hold these things.

In July, my Thai class was made up of five American men, one other woman, and me.  I walked in and actually laughed (in my head) because I knew that God was going to use it to teach me something.  Lo and behold, I was right.  In the midst of learning the Thai alphabet (which was actually really fun), we had a lot of interesting conversations about everything from where to find the best Mexican food in Southern California to the distinctions between Thailand's many islands.  They are a nice group guys, and keep in mind I cannot speak for all of their intentions being here in Bangkok, or if these particular guys even engage with the sex industry in any way.

One day, came the moment that I turned a major corner.  He didn't know that I heard him say this, but I overheard one of the guys say, "well, we're just a bunch of numb skulls looking for love."  Yep.  There it is.  These guys are human beings, just like the rest of us.  Are there evil evil things that happen here?  Yep.  Totally.  Is seeing every man as the slobbering pig truthful?  Not at all.

We have to have compassion for the men.

I came here with a heart for women working in Thailand's sex industry.  I was, am, and will be prepared to fight for them in whatever way that may look like.  But, fighting for these women also means fighting for the men.  Because they are worthy of and searching for freedom and healing and identity just as much as anyone else, and because this will never change any other way.  I will leave here with fire in my bones for these women, but for the men who are part of this cycle too.  And it's all because of the one who came that we may be free- Jesus.

An awesome group of guys doing this work right here in BKK: http://www.mstproject.com/

NightLight is in major need of some more volunteers if you or someone you know has a heart for the sexually exploited in Thailand: click here

For Freedom's Sake

Happy 4th of July weekend!  For my celebrations here in Bangkok, I made rice krispie treats with red and blue m&ms to look like the American flag and celebrated with some of my fellow NightLight staff.  We hung out at the pool and even grilled out on a tiny portable grill (such is life when everyone lives in apartments).  We even watched Independence Day until the website we were using cut out.  That's how it is overseas!  It was a good day.

One of my favorites, on sale here

One of my favorite aspects of my job is getting to sell NightLight jewelry.  Anyone who comes through the tour is given the opportunity to purchase, and I've done a few sales at church and even one at the US Embassy (they were having a farmer's market).  I don't think I've explained this recently on the blog, but NightLight operates as a business model.  By employing our women to work for us, they no longer have to work in the bars.  Within their work day, the women have the counseling and classes that help them along their journey of healing, along with working in whatever department they work in.  By learning new skills such as screen-printing, coffee or making jewelry, the women are able to see that they can do something besides the work they had been doing.  This is how earrings, necklaces, and bracelets (and t -shirts and cupcakes and lots of other things) become a source of freedom for these women.  This is how salaries are paid so that these women can support themselves and their families.  By wearing or giving NightLight jewelry, you are a vital part of bringing freedom and healing to women in Thailand.

Swarovski crystals and real pearls for $5?
Doesn't get much better than that!

You may be wondering why I'm choosing to tell you all of this now.  Well, not only do I like encouraging people to support NightLight's work (that's my job!), but I like people to get a good deal in doing that.  Right now, our online store is doing a massive Christmas in July sale, and so there are several awesome pieces that you can get for even more awesome prices.  I've included some pictures of the jewelry as well as the link to the online store.  So, this Christmas in July thing is a really worthwhile time to buy some stuff, for freedom's sake as we say.  Trust me, I can rattle off the prices of most of these pieces and these prices right now (through July 8th) are quite good!

SHOP HERE:

http://store.nightlightinternational.com/default.asp

This lovely necklace comes in lots of colors and is marked down to half off!

Even When It Hurts

So it's actually been two weeks now since I wrote this post.  As much as I've wanted to be open and honest about my life here, I found it so easy to procrastinate on sharing something so personal.  I can also say that I wrote this out of a rough night and that my daily life isn't quite this dramatic.  I've since been taking a break from going into the bars for a few weeks as well, to work through some of the things that have been building up over the last few months.  I'm thankful to be well loved and supported by wiser and more experienced people who have been down this road already.  But, these words need to be shared, so here you go.

"Take this fainted heart
Take these tainted hands
Wash me in Your love
Come like grace again"

Hillsong United times their album releases uncannily with my life it seems.  Their new album, Empires just came out and has been on repeat on my Spotify.  "Even When it Hurts (Praise Song)" stood out instantly to me:

"Even when my strength is lost
I'll praise You
Even when I have no song
I'll praise You
Even when it's hard to find the words
Louder then, I'll sing Your praise"

Even when it hurts.  Even when I don't know what God's saying.  Even when I don't want to believe it.  Even when it hurts in a way I didn't know it could.

Even when addiction and trauma twist the hearts and minds of those we love so much.

Even when I realize how hard it has become for me to trust men.  Even when I realize that my grounds for being mistrustful of men are nothing to what these girls are going through.

Even when my friends and family are hurting and rejoicing and all of the above and I can't be there.  Even when I have no idea how to be a good friend across the miles.  

Even when I don't want to believe that God has something better for this place because being bitter or apathetic is way easier.

"Even when the fight seems lost
I'll praise You
Even when it hurts like hell
I'll praise You
Even when it makes no sense to sing
Louder then I'll sing Your praise"

Even when the girl I had in mind when we came to this bar is already sitting with man three times her age.

Even when she could be my younger sister.  Even when it takes copious amounts of alcohol for her to get through the night.

Even when I look across the bar and see the fear, doubt, confusion, and heartbreak in a man's face and wonder how he ended up here anyways.

Even when I look across the bar and see him treating her the ways no human should ever be treated with a huge smile on his face, and wonder how he ended up here anyways.

Even when it hurts too much.  Even when I want to give up.

"Take this mountain weight
Take these ocean tears
Hold me through the trial 
Come like hope again"

The real, raw, honest, truth is that the "I will only sing Your praise" line is really hard right now.  Intellectually, I know that it's true.  Sometimes it just doesn't come.  Sometimes it is through the hurt, through the confusion.  Because it has to be true.  The Gospel has to be true, or I'm out.  There has to be an ending to the story different than the present, or I'm done.  Even though hope is so much more painful than apathy and walls, there has to be something that can come out of this, something bigger, the biggest big picture that there could be.  

And yet even recently, we had someone we've been working with for awhile decide to follow Jesus.  And then we got very good news on another case.  God's glory is already rising out of this place.  It's rising out of the pounding base and flashing neon, even as the brokenness is so loud and bright.  I see it in the women at NightLight who have taken their chances for another life and run with it further than anyone could have dreamed or imagined.  I see it in the joy and security that their children have, in the breaking of the cycle that brings the women to this place.  I see it in my coworkers, in who they are and the stories that brought them here, the way that they keep showing up even when its hard, and even when it hurts.  

And here's the other thing- this isn't supposed to be about my feelings.  It's first and foremost about Jesus and then about the people that we are serving.  Since I am an emotional processor and a deep feeler, this is how I choose to share.  I wasn't planning to have a nice ending on this post.  I was going to leave it hanging because so much of life and ministry and caring for people does not wrap up nicely.  I wanted it to sit and make you think.  Yet, it didn't seem right to have one without the other.  Even when I don't feel like it, and even when it hurts like hell, I will choose to sing His praise.

"And my soul waits only for You
And I will sing til the miracle comes"
-Hillsong United

Life Update

It's hard to write.  That's the honest truth.  Some things I can't share, some things I can't find the words to share.  I want to do these people and this experience justice.  I want my friends at home to understand what it's actually like here, because it's probably definitely not what you're imagining.  But how do I honor the people that I work with and meet, without making their stories too sensational?  How do I be honest about my own heart when I don't understand everything myself?  I'll just give you a general life update as of now and see where this goes.

Work-- I am still in the role of doing tours and teams.  The woman I am temporarily replacing is leaving within the next couple of weeks so the role will really be mine!  I'll be leading tours two days a week (as people request them) coordinating for the few teams that we have coming through, doing some local sales here in Bangkok, and also taking over the role of teaching English to some of the women one day a week.  I'll continue going on outreach and helping out wherever I'm needed.  I really enjoy my job, especially getting to meet people from all over the world and telling them about the work that NightLight is doing.  We do some sales around Bangkok as well, and I keep our showroom organized.  If you're interested in checking out our products, here they are.  By purchasing from NightLight products you are providing a way to freedom for a women working in the sex industry, a chance for a different life.

School-- I am about to finish out my third month of studying Thai.  Learning a language three hours a day five days a week is intense to say the least.  I do feel like I'm improving though, and Thai more often than not comes more quickly to me than Chinese finally.  On Monday, my friend Kate and I went to Immigration to have our first two month visa extension.  Some people have to speak Thai with the officials when they go which I was nervous about, but since we got there a little later, they just wanted to move through everyone, and the only thing I said in Thai was hello before they stamped me through.  I was so thankful!  Sometimes my life here feels so normal to me, but then I remember that I'm an expat.  Something that I love about Bangkok is how international it is.  The list of countries that I have met people grows longer and longer.

The Rest-- As two of my former housemates finished their internships and returned home, I moved into a new place with some other women I work with.  I love getting to explore a new neighborhood and get to know my coworkers better.  One of my best friends from study abroad was here for a week after finishing her job in China.  I showed her some of my Bangkok and then we journey north to Chiang Mai.  I just couldn't pass up the opportunity to explore somewhere new with my best adventure buddy.  We got to see elephants (treated humanely of course), eat some awesome food, and see many of the local sights while catching up on the last years of our lives.  I'm so thankful that she was able to be here!

Prayer Requests--

• for NightLight's ministry and staff- that we would seek more of God in all that we do
• for God's glory to continue to rise out of this place, more and more, that the darkness would flee
• for the people and nation of Thailand to know who they are in Christ
• for the men and women both visiting and working in the red light districts, that they would know that they are so much more than their bodies and the brokenness that has happened in their lives

And now some Chiang Mai pictures for you!

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  Elephants are so insanely cool!

  

  View of Chiang Mai from atop Doi Suthep

  

  Myks and I at Doi Inthanon

  

  Doi Inthanon

Krabi

Kate, Elisha, and I covered in water
and flour during Songkran celbrations

 Last week was Thai New Years, or Songkran.  Thus, NightLight and school closed for a few days and we had a five day weekend.  My friends and I were advised to get out of Bangkok during this time, so we headed south to Krabi and Thailand’s world famous islands.  Oh my gracious, it was lovely.  We did so  many different things that we’ve joked we came back less rested than when we left, but it was so fun to experience so much and be away from the city and daily life.

We did a boat tour of several islands that included snorkeling, dinner, on the beach, and swimming with bioluminescent (glowing) plankton.  It’s funny how the least expected circumstances are always the most memorable.  At one of the islands we stopped at, we got caught in torrential rain.  Most of the rest of the group was huddled on the boat, but we discovered that the ocean was actually the warmest place to be, and so we laughed hysterically and floated around in the rain.  I’m pretty sure that doesn’t apply to any of the other beaches I’ve ever been to! 

Snorkeling in Koh Phi Phi

Another highlight was snorkeling.  If you don’t know this about me, I spent my childhood in the pool doing synchronized and competitive swimming.  Sometimes I feel more comfortable in the water than on land, yet this part of my life ended with high school.  We snorkeled at a few locations near Krabi and on Koh Phi Phi, perhaps the most well known of Thailand’s many islands.  I have always wanted to be a fish or a dolphin or something.  While breathing through a snorkel mask is fun because you sound like Darth Vader, I abstained from surface exploration in favor of diving as close to the reef as possible.  There were many different types of colorful fish and I followed them around and explored.   We also got to see the glowing plankton, and swimming with them was like dancing surrounded by stars.  Words actually are failing me a little on this one.  I know I will never forget the pure joy and delight of that moment, and of seeing God’s incredible creativity on full display in a way I never had before.

Happiest of days, Koh Lanta

The story that has so far been the most retold from this trip however, happened on Koh Lanta when I managed to crash my motorbike within the first five minutes of being on it.  Though I take motorbike taxis to the train every morning here in Bangkok, I had never driven one of my own.  I had to make a u-turn across the road to go the direction that we needed to go, and in my inexperience I accidentally accelerated into the turn and crashed headlong into the curb.  I think it is the funniest thing ever.  Kinesthetic intelligence has never been a gifting of mine.  I would crash my bike.  Of course I would.  For what it could have been, it actually went pretty well.  I have huge bruises over one arm and my legs, and I gashed my knee and arm open.  I didn’t hit my head in any way, and the curb that I hit was extra tall, which slowed me down much more than if it had been a normal height curb.  After making one of my housemates splash my wounds clean and sitting with my head between my knees for a few minutes (this girl does not do blood), I got back on the bike and had the most lovely day exploring Koh Lanta with my friends.  That day also happened to be Songkran day, which is celebrated by people throwing water on you.  Definitely the best day to learn a new skill, HA.  It was actually really fun.  Koh Lanta isn’t very touristy at all, and has many lush green hills and beautiful beaches.  We got caught in the downpour again and by the end of the day I felt confident enough that I took a solo trip on my bike for some more exploring.  Glory be.

Maya Bay, Koh Phi Phi

I love traveling.  The desire to see and explore is part of who I am.  Krabi surprised me in how different it was than any place I had ever been, and that’s what I love.  I love seeing a new piece of who God is in what He’s made.  I love the thrill of the unknown.  I love how on the edge of the ocean, there is all the room in the world for my thoughts to roam, and I know how small I am and how big God is.  It’s the most comforting thing, to have even a glimpse of how vast He is, yet to know how He sees and cares for me in the most perfect way.  Praise be, I am thankful. Krabi, I’ll be seeing you again someday I’m sure.

Joy that Fills

I am alone at a table in a Japanese restaurant, in one of Bangkok’s infamously numerous malls next to a window, a steaming bowl of ramen next to me.  I am full of joy.  For the past few days, I’ve been pretty empty emotionally.  There’s not one thing that I can say that contributes to that, its just something that happens in life, and there’s a lot of things going on in my life here.  I think that goes for most people wherever they are.

God is faithful.  The past few days at NightLight we’ve had a team from Bethel Church with us.  The girls went on outreach on Friday night, and the entire group has been providing prayer ministry and encouragement to NightLight women and staff.  Today, I went upstairs for prayer.  A group of five of the team prayed and prophesied over me.  Much of what they said was spot on and even answered some questions that have been bumping around in my mind for some time now.  What a gift.  I don’t know if I will see these people again this side of heaven.  I don’t even know everyone’s name in the group.  That’s even part of what makes it special.  Prophecy is speaking God’s words.  These people didn’t know me at all, yet what they said was so specific that it had to have come from Heaven.  That’s what has me undone today- that God would speak, care for, and love me in this way.  He uses His people to communicate all the time, and He knew what I needed to be reminded of today.  I felt so known and loved in that room, as if I had been with my closest friends.  My heart has been aching for that.  Today, I am full of joy, not because I met some cool people and they were nice to me, but because God sees me and cares for me and knows me.  I am full of joy because things make a little more sense now.  One of the things that was spoken over me today was that I’m full of joy and I shouldn’t be afraid to walk in that fully, not holding back.  Once again, He fills the emptiness.  He has been so faithful in that here- I have Him and His presence.  He’s there waiting.  He is good.

It’s hard to know what to write here.  Much of what I want to say isn’t to be said over the internet.  Much of it I don’t have words for.  God has me in a growing place, a pressing in place.  It’s messy and it’s personal, and it’s so beautiful because He’s right here, even when it doesn’t feel like it.  That being said, it’s high time for an update on my life.  I’m getting more comfortable in my roles at NightLight.  We’ve had a lot of guests this month which has been awesome, and also that I’ve been busy at work.  I finished my first section of language school today as well.  I feel like all of the information is in my mind but is still working on coming out how and when I want it to.  Prayer for that would be awesome.  Thai new year’s is coming up soon and in 10 short days I will be on my way to the south of Thailand for some very much needed rest.  Thank you, my sweet friends and supporters.  I would not be here without your love, prayer, and encouragement.  I’m so excited for what God is doing here, not only in me, but in Thailand and at Nightlight.  Thank you!  What do you want to know about my life here?  Let me know, and I'll work it into future posts!

This is my life now...

Assignment

Hey friends, I think Bangkok is getting hotter by the day.  Oh buddy.  If you're reading this with snow outside your window, I'm sorry.  Maybe.  One of my happiest moments since my last post was that I got to see my roommate from senior year Ellie and her husband Jake as they had a layover in Bangkok for an evening.  I cannot tell you how much joy it gave me to be with her again, catching up on Jesus glory stories, laughing at our jokes, and being loved by people who know me so very well.  It was hard to have to say goodbye again after only a few hours, but I'm so thankful for God providing that experience and reminding me how He loves to care for us, even in the seemingly small things.

In other news, I started language class today.  Our first class was learning vowels, consonants, and tones.  I had thought that knowing Chinese tones would help me out with Thai, but the tones are just different enough that it's confusing.  On the other hand, my China experience has been such a valuable stepping stone to Thailand in more way than one.  Because really, everything is preparation for something when you follow Jesus!

I went to Laos this past weekend with my friend and housemate Kate to apply for our education visas that will carry us through the rest of our time in Thailand.  We got into a van with a bunch of other expats in the evening on Wednesday, and drove all night until we got to the Laos border and walked across at 6am.  It was very much like a movie scene of some kind- a hoard of people with backpacks walking though a giant gate in early morning darkness.  However, we only had to walk because Thailand and Laos drive on opposite sides of the roads, and right hand drive vehicles aren't allowed across the border.  After that we waited in some lines, went to the Thai Consulate, and waited in more lines.  Kate and I's motto was to relax so we slept, watched movies and sat outside at our hotel.  The next day we received our visas, visited in excellent little coffee shop in Vientiane, and returned to Thailand.

That brings me to my next point.  A few weeks ago, I finished reading Unstoppable by Christine Caine.  I highly recommend it!  She compares life to God to running a relay race- being prepared, being ready for exchanges, and how everyone on the team does their part.  One idea she talks about is that of "knowing your assignment."  In her example (and in my life right now), it specifically applies to ministry.  We are most effective for God when we know exactly what we're supposed to be doing and doing it well.  The evening we were at the hotel, there was a most glorious sunset.  I was spending some time with God on one of the balconys, but the sun was away from me.  I ended up in a cleaning closet (that was only closed off by a curtain), with worship playing on my phone watching the sun go down in every color.

I thought about the people and nation of Laos, where churches are under scrutiny and Christians have been imprisoned and told to renounce their faith.  My heart cried out to God.  And yet, I sensed God say, ever so subtly, "this isn't your assignment."  My assignment was south of me at that time, in another South East Asian nation that is winning my heart in ways I didn't know were possible.  Because right now, this year, Thailand is my place and my people.  He has me to be here. Does that time and that love extend past November?  I can't answer that yet.  What I do know is that there's something about being here that's right and important.  It's more than me liking the food and the palm trees (even if my Instagram would give other ideas), it's a love in my heart that is bigger than me because its supernatural.  It's God's heart to see these people know Jesus Christ as Lord.  This is big and I'm not sure what exactly the make of that yet because it's one thing that could mean so many different things.  But, woah.  Because He loves this place a whole heck of a lot, and so do I.

Prayer Requests:
--grace and patience as I add Thai classes and studying to my schedule, and that I would have supernatural understanding for this language.  I haven't had much luck with language learning in the past, and I hope this time will be different!
--for outreach on Friday, that God's love would be tangible and communication between us and the women would be clear and meaningful.  Pray that it would be a night of blessing, healing, and God's presence!

Ellie and I! I'm so thankful for this.

Waiting to cross into Laos

First Two Weeks at NightLight

So I’m now done my second week of my internship at NightLight!  Eventually, my roles will include coordinating guest groups, giving tours, and doing sales of NightLight jewelry here in Thailand.  So far I’ve done lots of random tasks, sat in on tours to start learning what I’ll be saying, and sold jewelry at a church here in town.  I went on my first night of outreach last Friday and helped with a medical clinic last week as well.  I’m just trying to take everything in, learn as much as I can, and do a good job! 

Outreach was one of the most significant portions of my week.  Thank you to all who were praying for and during that time!  We’ll be out again this Friday night, which will be Friday morning for most of you.  Prayer is especially important during these times.  I haven’t been here long enough yet to have huge deeply profound things longing to break out of my soul through words, so I’m just going to describe to you what I saw and felt.  We (two others and I) started the night with prayer and worship.  Two women from NightLight were also there to sing and pray with us (bilingual worship, yeah!) 

The street is crazy crowded with vendors and people at night, and lights and music blast out of the bars.  Through a thick black curtain, into more music and neon lights.  The women stand on a stage in the middle of the room, wearing a bikini at most, probably less.  They are supposed to be dancing, but really they are just stepping from foot to foot or moving their hips.  Their facial expressions range from bored to disengaged to desperate.  It’s their faces that I haven’t forgotten.  There certainly isn’t anywhere else in their direction that I can look without feeling incredibly awkward.  But not looking at them would do nothing to acknowledge their humanity.  We sit and order soda.  One of my coworkers who is able to communicate in Thai begins a lively conversation with one of the girls.  I sit.  I take it all in.  It sinks into the depths of my soul that this is truly happening in front of me.  Extreme emotions don’t hit me- because I can’t show them here, but realize after awhile that my shoulders are getting tight, a surefire sign that I’m feeling something that I can’t yet express.  That time, I didn’t end up (attempting) to talk to any of the girls, I just took everything in. 

I sat in that club and prayed.  I prayed for the conversation going on beside me, I prayed that God’s kingdom come in this dark place, I prayed that the girls before me would see themselves as beloved daughters of the King.  And as I prayed, God gave a tiny piece of His heart to me too.  His heart sees hope in deep darkness.  His heart knows those women by name, not by a number.  Being in that club hurt, literally on a physical level in my body I felt the darkness, BUT His hope shines brighter.  This was only my first of what will most likely be many trips into the club.  Join me in praying for these women, against the darkness that surrounds them.  Pray that the light of Jesus would break through in this place.  Pray for my team and I, prayer is so incredibly necessary in what we are doing.  

All in all though, city life in Bangkok is fun right now.  Liv (my roommate and coworker) and I take motorcycle taxis to the train most mornings to come to work.  In the evenings, I take a song taew home from the train- that’s a pickup truck with the back converted into bench seats and handrails and packed full of people.  I love just walking around to get wherever I’m going and all of the street food and random things that I see.  There’s even a golden retriever on the way home who I’m working on becoming friends with because, well, goldens are just the best.  That's all for now!

Run exploring

Beach Trips and the Red Light District- Weeks 3&4

I can barely believe it but my month of training with ISM is up, I’m moved into my new place, and I officially start at NightLight on Monday!

Training was one of those times that seemed to last 50 years and five seconds at the same time.  I just met these girls, we were together constantly for four weeks straight and now some of them are onto other parts of Asia for their internship placements and I didn’t realize until this morning when it was happening how sad it would be to say goodbye to them.   Even though goodbyes are never fun, I try and always be thankful for the hellos.  I’m now living with three other girls from ISM- Kate, Leesh, and Liv. We are all working at organizations that work with victims of the sex industry here in Bangkok and Liv will be at NightLight with me until late April.  I can hardly wait to see what sharing life with these women brings!

Since my last post, so many awesome things happened during training.  One highlight was our highly anticipated beach day.  We loaded up a giant van and drove 2 hours to Ko Samet, a lovely island beach with bright blue water and palm trees and white sand.  After having class or outreach every single day it was a much needed refreshing day!  My favorite part of the day was parasailing.  As I was casually flying through the air surrounded by blue ocean and sky, it sunk in a little more deeply that I am really here, that God really did call me here.  His glory was oh so abundant in that beautiful place, such a sweet reminder to have. 

On a more sobering note, we did a prayer walk in the red light district.  It was surreal.   I can’t believe all of the events, big and small, that have led up to that moment.  Who would have imagined that I would be here in Thailand, spending a year of my life?  I had many, many, thoughts and feelings about it.  The heaviness was palpable, yet so was the hope.  More than any of the sadness, anger, or disgust that I feel, burns my passion to see these women know who they are in Christ.  I know that I’ll have much more to say about all of this once I start my time with NightLight. 

I appreciate all of your prayers and kind words to me so far.  I would especially love your prayers as I begin this new phase of my life here, for my work at NightLight and for my new little home here.  Pray that our adjustments to our placements would be smooth.  Thank you so much!

Ko Samet I love you

Love these girls so much!

Old Friends and the Best Food Ever- Week 2

I can't believe its been 12 days since I last posted.  Oops.  Time is flying!  This week I rode on my first motorcycle taxi, decided that my new favorite food is mango sticky rice, and accidentally blew out half of my friends birthday candles while I was giving him his cake.  Double oops.

One of the most notable events of the past week that a friend of mine from Hope, Chris, was in town for a few days (including his birthday involving the partially extinguished cake).  I think I exhaled too much or something.  Anyways.  I hadn't even been here for two weeks when already another time in my life intersected with my life here.  It was so great to show him around with my still very limited Bangkok knowledge and for my ISM friends to meet him.  We had some great conversations and Chris and I discovered not one but two amazing coffee shops here in the city.  Coffee shops are somewhere that I love to be and that help me feel at home.  I'm thankful to have already found some places that can be that for me here!  I love how diverse the international community is.  There are all sorts of people from all over the world here at the YWAM base, and one of my ISM classmates had some friends visiting from Sweden who  have been with us for the past week.

On Saturday, we went to Thai cooking school and it might actually have been the best food I have ever eaten.  We made tom yum (soup), pad thai, spring rolls, green curry, and mango sticky rice.  The recipes were pretty easy and so delicious!

Yesterday (Sunday) we went to NightLight's church (the ministry I will be working with starting next month).  It was incredible.  Even though worship was in Thai, we knew many of the songs and God's presence was heavy in the room.  We sang "Break Every Chain" which took on a deeper meaning than it had for me before.  I'm so excited to begin serving with them!

God has been answering my prayers for more of Him this past week.  It was our "Spiritual Week" and we had some awesome teachings on a variety of topics.  I'm thankful for a deepened desire for His presence and for a community around me that is running with me towards more of Him and His glory.  He is worthy and He is worth it!

Glory be to the God who breaks every chain!

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Only some of the delicious things I get to eat here!

Sawatdee kha from Thai cooking class!

Yes, I'm Alive and in Bangkok!

Well here I am in Bangkok.  I arrived on what here was Sunday night, while all you at home were starting your Sunday mornings.  I just wanted to give a quick update to let everyone know that and how my time has been so far.  I jumped right into my Impact School of Missions classes on Monday morning.  So far we’ve talked about culture and contexualizing and sharing the Gospel in Asian cultures.   Yesterday morning we had a basic intro crash course in Thai language which was super helpful.  I can already more clearly recognize some of the sounds that I hear in speech and I have a better idea of how to pronounce the Romanized Thai words that are on street signs or whatever.  And it may be too early to say this, but I think that my limited study of Chinese may be helpful in learning Thai as both languages are tonal and the tones are actually quite similar.  I’m also much more motivated with language this time around since I’m starting out immersed, I know my need to communicate.

In my training group are eight other girls ages 18-25, representing the US, Canada, the UK, Thailand, and Australia.  Out of nine of us we will be heading out to serve in Thailand, Cambodia, India, and the Philippines at the end of the month after training.  I’m enjoying getting to know everyone so far and I know that we will have many more adventures together!  

One question that I got a lot before I left home was what my living situation will be here in Thailand.  We are staying at the YWAM base here in Bangkok for the first month (shout out to all my YWAM friends!) and I share a room with three of the other girls.  After that I will be living with three other ISM students who are doing internships here in Bangkok.  That will change again in April as some of the girls head home at that time, and I’ll decide what to do from there later on.

Thank you all so much for praying!  I'll have more to share soon!